Best of luck to you and your Sailor! Thank you so much for taking the time to reply to my post. I'm so glad that I found this article.
Especially if he is on a ship, as you can imagine getting mail to him takes longer than regular mail. Tell them you love them and that everything they do will bring the two of you closer together and to where you truly want to be soon enough. We are here for you! Also, your fears of the future are always going to make it seem like it will be much worse than it actually will be when the time comes. I got married at 19, while I was in college, and I graduated, and went on to work as a reporter and then become a published author. You have a challenging career too and it's a big decision to decide if you would leave your job or wait for retirement.